A: It sounds like you are dealing with a deep psychological issue. It is difficult for me to believe that a parent with a child of any age would resent their offspring needing to feel nurtured and protected! Though it is shameful that you can’t appreciate the obvious bond that your child feels, it is commendable that you are seeking help. You should make an appointment with a mental health professional to determine why you resent your son’s show of affection and trust. Possibly something in your past has caused you to shut down your emotions. Talk with your spouse and friends to discover if they have ever suspected you of having sociopathic tendencies. Whatever the cause may be you should ask yourself if you will be able to return your son’s affection. If not, you have a bigger problem than can be addressed here. For both your son’s and your sakes, I hope that you are able to resolve this situation quickly. He sounds like a wonderful, adoring person that I can only hope you learn to cherish.
